Wisdom is knowing that I can love you even though I don’t really like you. Even though I think you’re actually extremely annoying.
Extraordinary is when you find someone who actually practises that love.
Insight is when you realise that you were the annoying, unlikeable person.
Growth is when you attempt to make amends and ask forgiveness.
Grace is when forgiveness is given and the person in the wrong is left feeling built up and whole and not wrung-out and used up.